Which, if any, porn stars do you think are better at giving blowjobs than you?
Well, just a few years ago (during my mid-to-late teens) when I was really beginning to develop and explore my sexuality, I used to watch particular pornstars and try to learn from and emulate their oral techniques. I’d take conceptual bits and pieces from a variety of starlets and work towards developing my own unique style.
Each of those pornstars whom I watched and learned from — my sexual ‘mentors’ in some sense — I will always consider, in my heart of hearts, to be better than I am. No matter how skilled an individual gets or what level of prowess she achieves, her heart and mind will always look up to the ones she learned from.
These are by no means all the pornstars I watched in those sexually formative years, but they are the most prominent. In no particular order:
Bobbi Starr, aka The Queen:
In sum, then, I’ve taken a great deal of knowledge, on oral style, technique and attitude, from each and every one of these pornstars over the years. And you know what they say — “To become the best, you must learn from the best.”
P.S. I often get asked the question: which pornstar are you most similar to, stylistically? My answer has always been that oral sex (and really all sex) is in some respects an art form, and as such is necessarily founded on individual expression. But, if you pointed a gun to my head and demanded that I pick someone, anyone who most closely resembles my overall methodology, I think most of you (assuming you’ve been following me for some measure of time) would know immediately who the answer is…